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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: dermo on October 12, 2014, 03:03:49 PM



Title: Parental Alienation
Post by: dermo on October 12, 2014, 03:03:49 PM
has this with my BPD ex and have had to fight it but have managed to keep my relationship with my children... .have people encountered it as a common feature where one parent is BPD or borderline tendencies?


Title: Re: Parental Alienation
Post by: scraps66 on October 13, 2014, 08:13:52 AM
Absolutely.  It is how they fabricate a favorable comparison of themselves, to you, via the poison they feed the unsuspecting and innocent children.  Read up about it and how to combat diplomatically.  One thing that I have done is just to be consistent and get yourself as much time with the kids as is possible.


Title: Re: Parental Alienation
Post by: Matt on October 13, 2014, 10:43:58 AM
I think when one parent has BPD it's almost certain to happen, to some extent.  (My experience with it is not very extreme.)

Check out ":)ivorce Poison" by Richard Warshak - practical ideas for dealing with it - different from what you usually read in the media.