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Title: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: drummerboy on October 16, 2014, 06:53:00 AM Just curious if it's happened to anyone? Something very strange happened today that leads me to believe that my ex is reading my posts.
Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: BrokenFamily on October 16, 2014, 07:32:23 AM I thought that the other day and changed my name just to make sure LOL I would guess no they are too self absorbed to even care about your opinions or feelings. You may have repeated things via email or text that you thought you only stated here but it's unlikely.
Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: bruceli on October 16, 2014, 01:09:36 PM Yes and it wasn't pretty.
Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on October 16, 2014, 03:04:23 PM Iv been wondering the same... .when he was getting better, or
so i thought, i referred him to this site in order to show him what it like for a non... .stupid i know. but if he reads i really have no care anymore... . this is the place i got to get over him. chances are though that its too much reading for him. he doesnt crave me enough to read about my thoughts. good luck to him finding another me. Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: fred6 on October 16, 2014, 03:37:42 PM I thought about sending her the link to the site and my username. Then I thought, well fcuk what's the point?
Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on October 16, 2014, 03:40:09 PM I did not give him a username thankfully!
i wanted him to help himself. i was in denial that that is impossible for him. Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: .cup.car on October 16, 2014, 04:11:12 PM Even with a garbage username and location, everyone's story is a little bit unique, and they'll sooner or later figure out it's you if they do make their way over here.
At least take pride in the fact that it's on a support group website - if anyone's in the middle of a legal battle, it's proof that you're emotionally damaged and actively seeking help instead of just being an arsehole. Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Mr Hollande on October 16, 2014, 04:17:44 PM There is no realistic way I'd tell my ex about this place and although I am not worried about other BPD ex's possibly checking this place I prefer to regard this as a De-Borderline Personality Disorderised Zone.
Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Recooperating on October 16, 2014, 04:27:06 PM I totally worry about that to! Could it be PTSD? Weird that even here I dont feel completely safe! I've never told him about this site. I did tell him about other site for people with BPD. He was diagnosed in may, but a few months later he went in denial and told me I was BPD... .I questionned myself for a while even! But since I have a lot of long term friendships, long term jobs, no suicidal bs and was in a "normal" rs for 4 years without this bs... .Im quite sure Im not... :
I worry that he now somehow convinced himself and is here too to get over me? Jeez... .Paranoid! Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Infern0 on October 16, 2014, 05:16:59 PM Sweet Jesus I hope not!
Imo it's unlikely. Reading would be too much hard work for her. Title: Re: Anyone had an ex read these boards? Post by: Mr Hollande on October 16, 2014, 05:20:53 PM Sweet Jesus I hope not! Imo it's unlikely. Reading would be too much hard work for her. I think that's probably safe to say for all our ex's. Imagine the triggers this place would cause if they all read at the same time? Like a huge 4th of July or Bonfire Night fireworks display but in BPD land. |