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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: myself on October 17, 2014, 10:27:22 PM



Title: Still feel the ring sometimes
Post by: myself on October 17, 2014, 10:27:22 PM
I wore a ring she gave me, and believed in it, for years. Took it off many months ago. Our bond was broken. But I kept feeling where it used to be, like a phantom limb, a reminder, until recently. It's been slowly fading... .

Tonight it's there (not there) again. Urge to put the ring back on denied.

Anyone else experience something like this?


Title: Re: Still feel the ring sometimes
Post by: peiper on October 17, 2014, 11:15:34 PM
Mine has been off since June. But I have noticed I miss it. For some crazy reason I put it on last nite. Im taking it someplace and sell it !


Title: Re: Still feel the ring sometimes
Post by: Blimblam on October 17, 2014, 11:21:32 PM
The Lord of the rings - "the one" ring

www.youtu.be/nbLRDozffOc



Title: Re: Still feel the ring sometimes
Post by: maxen on October 18, 2014, 03:40:41 PM
i experience this strongly. some days i even put it on. i can't say there's a trigger for it, just some days as i leave for work i feel exposed without it. i technically am still married anyway.