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Title: i was told i need counseling for my control ok? Post by: Wanda on October 18, 2014, 03:24:41 PM Well if you heard my drama between my husband and my daughter, the ending is we the word is we all need counseling me of coarse for my control.
I haven>t heard this for a while usually means i am not using my communication skills well. so my daughter husband and i agreed to go geeze... now how i got involved i don't know i was the only calm one that day my husband and daughter was not... now my sister who has a bipolar daughter says the change in weather brings them out,. humm? but counseling to freshen up on my skills and tools and boundaries won't hurt me. i am hoping my daughter can sit in, she needs to go also and really we are there for the same thing, she knows he has BPD . things could of been different that day she was really no better. now he tells me he don't need that much counseling i am like ok maybe one or two sessions, he says i am like that is all i need also. he is like well you need it more then i ... of course i just chuckled ok? My daughter can use a little anger management also but that she has to agree on you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink... my you can tell halloween is around the corner/... charges were dropped on my husband. and we even have our granddaughter all day, i knew that wouldNt take long having a child when you can have that break, you out weigh the situation... :) :) Title: Re: i was told i need counseling for my control ok? Post by: formflier on October 18, 2014, 09:07:49 PM Always good to freshen up your skills. What do you think will be focused on in counseling? Title: Re: i was told i need counseling for my control ok? Post by: Wanda on October 19, 2014, 07:57:21 PM for me the skills of communicating with my husband,... .that i need sometimes i forget he has BPD so lacking my skills i forget.
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