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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: In Pain on October 21, 2014, 01:31:58 AM



Title: What to say ... What to not say... What works ?
Post by: In Pain on October 21, 2014, 01:31:58 AM
I love you !

The worst 3 words to say to a borderline.

What works... .What doesn't work.

Please advise.


Title: Re: What to say ... What to not say... What works ?
Post by: anxiety5 on October 21, 2014, 01:42:30 AM
I never had that problem. Maybe because her husband had left her and her divorce was getting finalized. But she never acted weird about saying that. The worst 3 words I could ever ask her were

"I need help"

or "Can you help?"

or "Can we talk?"