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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: FlyingAway on October 26, 2014, 07:07:57 PM



Title: First Thing, Last Thing
Post by: FlyingAway on October 26, 2014, 07:07:57 PM
I'm looking forward to the day when she isn't the first thing on my mind in the morning, and the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep. Anyone here past this stage?


Title: Re: First Thing, Last Thing
Post by: Hawk Ridge on October 26, 2014, 07:14:54 PM
Not yet but working on it


Title: Re: First Thing, Last Thing
Post by: Deeno02 on October 26, 2014, 07:46:03 PM
Nope. But the dreams have stopped...


Title: Re: First Thing, Last Thing
Post by: blissful_camper on October 26, 2014, 08:30:47 PM
It's a nice thing to look forward to. 

I thought I was past that stage. 

However, ex was on my mind first thing today, due to a dream last night.  I guess I had more processing to do.  At least I laughed in the first part of the dream.  (I admit it was at someone else's expense)  I feel kinda badly about that. 

I suppose things will come and go in the healing process.  I feel more at ease, and more myself, than I did this time last year and I'm grateful for that. 

Hang tight, sit with your feelings, and let it run its course.