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Title: Texting me about anything. Post by: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 03:35:46 AM Hi
My ex is texting me on average once a week, today I got one asking to give her ticket to a festival to a friend for free rather than it going to waste. Is she being thoughtful? Or just trying to lure me in? I had one a week ago asking where she got her dog food, Followed by a barrage of accusations when I failed to reply (projection type stuff). I will continue to ignore. I wish I was wrong about her having BPD, because I'd love for it to work out and have her back, but I know I can't. Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: btbh on October 28, 2014, 03:50:02 AM She is just baiting you to see if you are still under her spell so she can recycle you. Bait and dump.
She hurt you and has the nerve to ask you for a free ticket? I never reply my ex unless its a serious situation which I can actually help with or a simple thank you if she wishes me on my birthday and something. I usually reply hours later or even a day. Nothing immediate like how it was like when we were in a relationship. If you are just friends, you have NO obligation to reply her. Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 04:43:55 AM I just had another message! She found out from a friend of sold the tickets already.
I've her part of the money to drop round with some other stuff, I don't expect she is cared about the money though! Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: MrConfusedWithItAll on October 28, 2014, 04:53:15 AM I just had another message! She found out from a friend of sold the tickets already. I've her part of the money to drop round with some other stuff, I don't expect she is cared about the money though! Slot her money through the door and leave the rest on the ground and knock a few times and before she answers - Run Run Run Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: Infared on October 28, 2014, 05:26:53 AM It's all games.
If you are serious, just block her texts?... .no more bait & hook and you can move forward. Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: Startattoo2 on October 29, 2014, 10:37:38 AM And today I get this. 7 weeks on.
Can you tell me your house number so I can post that USB stick thing back and other stuff... .If not I will return it to your local post office for you to collect cos guessing you not able to deal with friendship! Thanks Sounds like she is wanting me to bite. So sad she is so screwed up. She know my address, this is just looking for a reply. Not happening. Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: Hurtbeyondrepair27 on October 29, 2014, 11:11:00 AM And today I get this. 7 weeks on. Can you tell me your house number so I can post that USB stick thing back and other stuff... .If not I will return it to your local post office for you to collect cos guessing you not able to deal with friendship! Thanks Sounds like she is wanting me to bite. So sad she is so screwed up. She know my address, this is just looking for a reply. Not happening. what is bait and dump? im not trying to hijack the thread... .but iv heard this more than once. last time my ex recycled me he literally broke up with me next day. Title: Re: Texting me about anything. Post by: Chasing_Ghosts on October 29, 2014, 11:21:29 AM what is bait and dump? im not trying to hijack the thread... .but iv heard this more than once. last time my ex recycled me he literally broke up with me next day. Exactly what you just described. |