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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: EaglesJuju on October 31, 2014, 02:06:06 PM



Title: What happens after pwBPD stop repressing feelings?
Post by: EaglesJuju on October 31, 2014, 02:06:06 PM
Communication with my uBPDbf has been very minimal. I have been initiating the contact for the last two months. The last time we talked, it revolved around him trying to convince me to move. Also, he told me that I should treat our situation like "rehab." He said his departure was like going to a rehab facility and during "rehab" people only communicate once a week.   I have been giving him his space and complying to his request. He still has not seen his psychiatrist and will not until November 5th.  The last thing he texted me was , "He is confused and struggling to hold himself together.  Repressing his feelings is the only thing that is keeping him from breaking."  I am assuming that the minimal contact is because of him repressing his feelings.  I have no idea what to expect when he stops repressing.  What happens when a pwBPD stops repressing their feelings?