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Title: Mentions Suidice Post by: Twinflame on November 10, 2014, 12:26:04 AM Hello,
My SO text me about trying to figure out his adoption and the truths behind it and after talking a lot about it he feels his parents are still lying to him and not telling him the truth. He later says "I'll probably end up just killing myself". This worries me so much and I don't know what to do. As far as I know I am one of the closest people to him but he lives in another state so not much I can do from here. i worry because he doesn't really know anyone out there. What do I do with this? I feel socially/emotionally responsible Title: Re: Mentions Suidice Post by: Infern0 on November 10, 2014, 03:00:07 AM Hi there I actually had the same thing happen to me earlier today she brought up suicide.
I asked if there is anything I can do to help and then spent most of the day worrying about it but at the end of the day you can't do anything for someone who won't accept help. It's unfair of them to say things like that to us and then just not even reply when we offer help and support. If you genuinely belive he's in immediate danger then contact the authorities. In my case she has people around her, she has her fake boyfriend they can handle it since she won't let me. Title: Re: Mentions Suidice Post by: maxen on November 10, 2014, 08:24:23 AM hi Twinflame
you're in a horribly stressful situation. i've read back into your posts and i see that your bf is not only making serious statements like this, but he's also making himself unavailable, and you're left in emotional turmoil. i'm really sorry i think it's better for you, and for him, to take these comments seriously until otherwise indicated. there are helplines for this, such as www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ and https://www.facebook.com/800273TALK. you might want to mention these to him the next time you speak. in the bigger picture, what keeps you attracted? where do you see the r/s going from here, after this episode? |