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Title: Extreme BPD…Words of Wisdom Brings Peace Tonight Post by: Hope0807 on November 10, 2014, 09:28:59 PM My extreme uBPDexH has brought me much horror and long-overdue peace. The horror arrived when my ex's demons surfaced and his character traits fall solidly between Sociopath and Psychopath. The peace arrived when I can compare him to my uBPD mother and for the first time in my life look back and know she was a broken BPD though and through, totally emotionally unprepared to deal with the world. I have compassion for my mother like never before.
I found the words below in an article and wanted to share: What we call something doesn't matter. There is one undeniable truth about predators: if we refuse to see them while we still have a chance, we'll never see them coming later—when we don't. Today I am grateful for Dr. Phil's "Life Code" Title: Re: Extreme BPD…Words of Wisdom Brings Peace Tonight Post by: bungenstein on November 10, 2014, 09:32:14 PM Yes, personally I think the BPD shares far too much with psychopathy for us to really treat them that different.
Psychopaths will create a blueprint for constructing a mirror-perfect soulmate persona and then, they claim you... .same as BPDs. Psychopaths will lie and manipulate and abuse and feel no empathy, same as BPDs. Title: Re: Extreme BPD…Words of Wisdom Brings Peace Tonight Post by: Mutt on November 11, 2014, 01:21:43 AM I found the words below in an article and wanted to share: What we call something doesn't matter. There is one undeniable truth about predators: if we refuse to see them while we still have a chance, we'll never see them coming later—when we don't. Today I am grateful for Dr. Phil's "Life Code" I'm sorry to hear about your mom. You were able to connect your uBPDh back to your past. I think you see things differently when you start to work on yourself and see the reasons why we can fall into these terrible r/s's. It opens your eyes. A quote from Anaïs Nin. “We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are" |