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Title: I just felt myself again for the first time
Post by: bungenstein on November 14, 2014, 07:00:37 PM
Its been 11 months since my breakup, and literally just now I had sort of an epiphany, I felt how I used to feel before I met her, I became myself again, I hope it stays, I don't know why it came, but it was a very clear and strong feeling because I hadn't felt it for so long.


Title: Re: I just felt myself again for the first time
Post by: thatwasthat on November 14, 2014, 07:10:01 PM
Has to come back one day, right?  :)

Glad to hear that! I know this feeling. Actually fell in love with me. lol


Title: Re: I just felt myself again for the first time
Post by: fromheeltoheal on November 14, 2014, 07:28:44 PM
Yes!  It takes a while for our selves to emerge again, and the feeling you got will help you remember who you are, and it will build.  Enjoy that!  When I started to feel me again I also became very grateful for it and life in general; nothing like taking something away and getting it back to realize how much we missed it and value it.


Title: Re: I just felt myself again for the first time
Post by: myself on November 14, 2014, 10:56:27 PM
Really like this positive post. Congratulations, and thank you.

Detachment isn't just about letting go of someone else.

It's about embracing ourselves.


Title: Re: I just felt myself again for the first time
Post by: Swede83 on November 15, 2014, 03:27:54 AM


Thank you for sharing that!   That gives me hope in this confusing darkness! 

Its been four month since my break up and I´m still thinking about what happened and wondering if this ever gonna end!

Thanks!