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Title: Extended nightmare of dysreg. Post by: howcanI? on November 15, 2014, 09:29:00 AM I am on crutches right now. BPD spouse forced to take over moving tasks to a house he absolutely hates and has non-stop anger towards me/it. His narcissism makes him have the only valid attitudes toward everything. I'm trying not to become invisible, at least to myself. I've made some progress toward NOT immediately trying to fix and placate. Something ironically humorous about attempting to physically detach when it involves slow hobbling! Being injured or sick makes us even more vulnerable, yes? My stomach is in knots, and fighting back tears (not always winning).
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