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Title: Do they aspire for healthy relationships? Post by: Craydar on November 22, 2014, 03:32:41 AM In the beginning do they genuinely want a relationship to work? Can they even think that way? Or is it just like a teenage crush where they simply start idolizing someone, only to fall into their usual pattern of dysfunction time and time again?
Title: Re: Do they aspire for healthy relationships? Post by: maxsterling on November 22, 2014, 08:56:29 AM Well, each pwBPD is different, so probably generalizing here won't be particularly helpful.
But in my experience, the 3 BPD I have dealt with in my life have all aspired to healthy relationships. They just don't understand what a healthy relationship is, and seem incapable of learning that. Title: Re: Do they aspire for healthy relationships? Post by: hope2727 on November 22, 2014, 03:27:42 PM Mine wanted a healthy relationship he just had a skewed idea of what that was. He was always telling me he wanted to be in love like the first day all the time. Ummmm that is not realistic. Anyway I know he wants to stop hurting. He said it all the time. He just doesn't know how. Poor bugger.
Title: Re: Do they aspire for healthy relationships? Post by: Climbmountains91 on November 22, 2014, 09:18:11 PM Heres my exBPD insight - https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=236866.msg12527624#msg12527624
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