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I haven't seen my husband since June. I haven't talked to him since September.  At first I was thankful for the peace. Now I just miss him. My chest is tight and the tears are just below the surface. Part of this is PMS, but some of it is real. I have been going to a therapist who helps me see the reality of how stressful it is to always be subject to someone else's moods. I am not contacting him, but I would give just about anything to have him hold me right now. Any encouragement will help. Please put this in perspective for me. My own emotions are overwhelming me right now.

I am feeling a bit like this myself.  I am angry that my ex vandalised our relationship.  I want to hold her hand.  But we know this cannot be again.  I doubt there is a cure to this disorder and insanity in our lives is not an option.  Here is a virtual hug from a fellow sufferer 

Hi Seriously

I can completely relate to what you are feeling. My situation is very much the same as yours. I stopped seeing my ex in June and thought it was our normal not talking for a few months but then i found out he was with someone else. I miss him terribly even though he drove me crazy. I did speak to him this week and our conversation ended up going a bit too far and we were suppose to meet the next day but he canceled. Not sure if it was an excuse or the truth why he canceled. I was hoping to get what i needed to move forward but so far i haven't been able to. I am going out with friends and trying to move on but it only seems to be depressing me more.

Dear Broken, l had some contact with my husband in the beginning, but now am just discarded. It's probably a good thing. I'd probably be back with him in a heartbeat if he caught me on a vulnerable day. Most days, I do pretty well. Thanks to all of you for your support.

Thanks for the cyber hug! I am so lonely, but I know a new relationship would only make things worse for me. I just want some comfort, ya know. I guess a hug on here is the best I can ask for right now. :)

I miss mine too. He is with his replacement and I spend my week looking forward to seeing my psychologist. Pathetic.

I have one better for you! I was rejected by a therapist I waited for over 2 weeks to get back to me. Turns out they are only accepting people with drug problems at this time so I would need to develop a drug habit for them to treat me. lol