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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: RR4U on November 24, 2014, 08:30:38 AM



Title: surgery today and he starts fight
Post by: RR4U on November 24, 2014, 08:30:38 AM
Just needed to vent. Scheduled for surgery today. Hes been great all week pics last night to start a fight.


Title: Re: surgery today and he starts fight
Post by: michel71 on November 24, 2014, 10:10:10 AM
Hugs to you and prayers for your surgery today. |iiii

You are not alone in this one. My uBPDw got mad at me the night before my surgery all because I didn't want to get up early to put the trashcans out and asked if she could do it. I wanted to sleep in a bit because my surgery wasn't until the afternoon.

As they were wheeling me in she was still mad at me! Nice huh? I know that kind of pain. Of all the times it would be nice to count on them, but no! It doesn't matter. What does matter is their anger, which takes precedence over everyone and everything.

Oooh I am mad just recounting the story again!

Stay strong and understand it for what it is... .the disorder... .them. Not you.


Title: Re: surgery today and he starts fight
Post by: RR4U on November 25, 2014, 01:07:47 AM
Thank you for that. Sat in pre op making small little comments.  But so far since being home he has been good. Sometimes just wish i had a "normal husband."


Title: Re: surgery today and he starts fight
Post by: michel71 on November 25, 2014, 04:06:43 PM
I hear you friend. Stay strong. Get well soon!