Title: It took no time for him to revert back into self-absorption. Post by: SickofMe on November 26, 2014, 05:16:24 AM The subject line says it all.
On the up side, I'm finding this very annoying instead of hurtful. The downside: once again, I feel sucked in to his darkness and emotionally zapped. I don't want to feel like this but I want to give a chance to the r/s and see if there is anything left. We both have kids at home and so don't spend a lot of physical time together. Getting back together feels a little like an anesthetic to dealing with the pain of his abrupt abandonment. I don't feel gutted and feel more able to analyze from this proximity. Any advice? Title: Re: It took no time for him to revert back into self-absorption. Post by: Perdita on November 27, 2014, 06:05:42 AM Hi SickofMe,
Maybe you should give us more information about what's going on at the moment. What self-absorp behaviour is going on with him this time? |