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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: evilpepsi on December 10, 2014, 07:55:38 PM



Title: ran into the ex today
Post by: evilpepsi on December 10, 2014, 07:55:38 PM
I walked into the gym and heading straight for me was the ex. her eyes looked up at me and then shot around in different directions looking for a direction to turn. she looked like a cockroach that was trying to scatter when the light comes on. I just laughed at her and walked past her. she joined that gym with me months ago and stopped going within two weeks. now she shows up there at the time that I normally go. too funny... .


Title: Re: ran into the ex today
Post by: fromheeltoheal on December 10, 2014, 08:23:06 PM
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I just laughed at her and walked past her.

Good move, you didn't relinquish any control or show your cards.  So how did you feel during and after?


Title: Re: ran into the ex today
Post by: evilpepsi on December 10, 2014, 08:27:51 PM
I just laughed at her and walked past her.

Good move, you didn't relinquish any control or show your cards.  So how did you feel during and after?

amused. she had to tell mr insecure that she saw me at the gym. he probably wont let her come back again.

not my circus, not my monkeys... .


Title: Re: ran into the ex today
Post by: Perfidy on December 11, 2014, 02:10:21 AM
Unity being the nature of all things, did you feel superior when you laughed at her? Why? Isn't there equality in terms of our mutual existence? Aren't we all caught in a similar existence?


Title: Re: ran into the ex today
Post by: evilpepsi on December 11, 2014, 02:18:01 AM
Unity being the nature of all things, did you feel superior when you laughed at her? Why? Isn't there equality in terms of our mutual existence? Aren't we all caught in a similar existence?

superior? nope. amused? yes. it was the sheer look of confusion on her face that amused me. also, i know how she is. im pretty sure that she told the npd that she saw me. i know that he feels threatened by me because he continually throws comments at me like "steroid boy,""juicehead," and so on. he also has to try to elevate himself somehow. she seeing me in the gym will cause problems. i seriously doubt that i will see her there again... .