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Title: Ignoring the Papers Post by: Mike76 on December 15, 2014, 07:02:12 AM First of we are in the same house that complicates things. I shared with my wife I wanted a divorce last December(2013), and then finally gave a letter in the Summer of this this year(2014) explaining process and that I wanted to with a mediator. She has refused to talk about it, so I officially filed and she received the papers this past weekend. She is pretending like everything is fine, and just stated I am not done fighting for our marriage. I know how to legally proceed, but has anyone experienced people just ignoring the divorcing conversations. Title: Re: Ignoring the Papers Post by: livednlearned on December 15, 2014, 11:20:02 AM I know how to legally proceed, but has anyone experienced people just ignoring the divorcing conversations. I only had a short version of this, and I was out of the house and had a lawyer communicate on my behalf. After months and years of telling me he wanted a divorce, N/BPDx had a change of heart after I left. Suddenly, he wanted to try marriage counseling. But dealing in general with BPD obstructions and stonewalling became my special talent :) Does your wife have more waif traits? |