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Title: a strange side effect of nc Post by: Infern0 on December 16, 2014, 06:46:39 PM During my year long association with my BPD ex I lost a total of 44 lbs.
Some of this was intentional as I had wanted to trim down a bit and at the start I was in the gym a lot and lost about 10lb but when devaluation kicked in I started to lose weight at an alarming rate. Even after the worst passed and I was able to eat, my metabolism was messed up and I just couldn't gain anything back. Been NC for almost 2 weeks now and just hopped on the scales and lo and behold a gain of 7lbs. Title: Re: a strange side effect of nc Post by: fromheeltoheal on December 16, 2014, 10:12:14 PM Yes, emotional strife will find a way out somewhere, including physical ailments. My shoulder seized up almost entirely when I was with her, it's where all the stress went, along with a bunch of weight loss, and it took a year after for my shoulder to heal and my body to stabilize. Of course it was self imposed, and looking at why I stayed when my body was clearly telling me it wasn't doing me any good has been the main event since.
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