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Didn't even take 30 days for things to implode. He said that she will be contacting me soon. Nah... .I got off of that lame train... .

Do you think that staying involved in this drama triangle is healthy?

Not at all. He just keeps blowing up my phone. I found it ironic and amusing. I'm done with her... .

That's just weird.

I don't think I'd be texting the man who's girlfriend I stole. It's like "Was it really worth it to be part of the reason why another person is in pain? Was it worth it for her?"

Yeah, it's weird that your replacement is texting you. Like, super weird.

Did you really get off the lame train or are you just saying that? The replacement is texting you?  This is bizarre... .Are you joining us in the 90 day challenge N/C? Might be good for you now... .think about it. It is on another thread... .:light:

He is probably feeling some sort of kinship.  Like brothers in battle.  Or rather now, brothers out of the battle.

Oh ___, yeah. Kind of like how soldiers on opposing sides just hung out in the trenches between engagements, I think during WWI. Except here (hopefully) the war is over.

Its an interesting way to look at it.

This is very true. I now feel for the guy that i replaced as i'm pretty sure everything the bpx said about him wasn't true. Like me, she also trapped with with a child (2 in his case) very quickly. She made so much of her life with that guy that she used me and having another baby to try and hit the reset button on her own life. Well, surprise surprise and she messes the relationship she had with me and after 4 or 5 replacements has trapped the latest one with yet another baby. I understand she has a disorder but one would think she would know better than to keep having all these kids to hold on to guys that she ends up giving no choice but to leave her anyway.

I'm almost tempted to annonymously reach out to the latest alleged baby daddy and highly suggest he take a DNA test. He's been with her for a year now so i'm sure he's been well aquainted with the beast but may not have an idea just how horrible of things the BPDx ex is capable of doing.

Was your ex high functioning? She doesn't seem like it if her new relationship didn't even last a month. Mine is 41 yo and pretty high functioning. She's pretty good at fooling people, I'll give her that much.

Have you considered that HE IS NOT TEXTING YOU.

Maybe she is texting you using his phone, then deleting texts so he doesn't know.  Could be a ploy to try and keep you in the love triangle.

Didn't think of this but it's possible. The BPD woman i was involved used to send herself nasty emails from my account then run around telling people that i was the one that sent it.

Nah, it's him. He told me what really went down. Turns out that he actually has a gf, ex wanted hum to dump her and let her move in, and when he said no she flipped out.

Its all too much bs for me so I moved on... .