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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Xidion on December 17, 2014, 10:36:46 PM



Title: Came here instead of texting ex
Post by: Xidion on December 17, 2014, 10:36:46 PM
Been drinking... .I'm so tempted to text her. 18 days of no contact and her birthday is tomorrow. Stupid BPD.


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: hope2727 on December 17, 2014, 10:54:45 PM
I have so been were yo are.   Stay strong.


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: Mutt on December 17, 2014, 11:01:10 PM
Her birthday may be the trigger. Sleep it off if you've had too much to drink. I'll echo hope2727, stay strong.


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: Infared on December 17, 2014, 11:21:41 PM
Yes... .try to stay in this moment... .not the past or the future... .occupy yourself with something or someone positive and supportive... tomorrow is just a day... deal with it then... .and remember... .it was just another day before you met her... .

I so know how you feel and you can get through this!  |iiii


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: Vatz on December 18, 2014, 08:46:04 AM
Hey man, good work texting us and not her.   

I think I actually forgot about her birthday until the next day. I was like "Oh wow, her birthday would have been yesterday."

Although in the future, I might avoid drinking if I were you. If it's this hard, it's best to stay sober.


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: hope2727 on December 18, 2014, 09:35:20 AM
Read "its called a breakup because its broken". Then get a breakup buddy and give them your phone. It helps me in weak moments.


Title: Re: I'm drunk. came here instead of texting ex
Post by: Xidion on December 18, 2014, 12:51:27 PM
I managed to not text her while drunk. Thank God. Was out with some buddies, so getting smashed was inevitable.  The bar tender ended up having the hots for me, so that was a good distraction.  Thanks fellas.