Title: Finally blocked Post by: Seriously? on December 18, 2014, 09:50:20 PM My husband finally filed an answer to my divorce complaint. He filed it just days after I finally blocked him on Facebook. I think he may have been checking up on me that way. He has my number and knows where i live, so maybe thinking he was just keeping tabs on me.
Title: Re: Finally blocked Post by: whythisgirl on December 20, 2014, 11:05:05 AM You better believe he was keeping tabs on you. My exBPD was showing up at my church and coming in my neighborhood. I called him out on it the other day and he tried to say oh I just visited my friend in your neighborhood I wanted to stalk you I would come to your house. Then as far as church, he said I could spot you but I left before you. Then he went on to mention how and where my car was parked in the parking lot. STALKER! Your husband was trying to monitor you on FB and once you blocked him I am sure that set him off and that is why he has finally responded to the divorce.
Title: Re: Finally blocked Post by: Seriously? on December 20, 2014, 01:35:26 PM Thanks for responding whythisgirl. It kind of made it a mess. He did not sign his answer and did not answer the grounds properly, so I am researching whether I can ask the court to make him file a proper answer. The date of final hearing was Jan 8. Now, that has been canceled and there is a progress hearing on March 1. Yes, he probably felt a loss of control, but he has not contacted me since September when I first filed. I was hoping to finally have closure since he refused counseling or working on our marriage in any kind of way. Why not just call?
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