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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Deeno02 on December 20, 2014, 11:56:53 AM



Title: Her house
Post by: Deeno02 on December 20, 2014, 11:56:53 AM
I don't have a choice but to not drive by her house. Can't help it, either route takes me by it. First time I saw the new guys car there. Felt a moment of anxiety. Quickly went away. This is a good thing! I'm happy about that!


Title: Re: Her house
Post by: Pingo on December 21, 2014, 11:07:54 AM
Hi Deeno, glad you are able to feel the anxiety and let it pass.  I am lucky, I don't even know where my ex lives or where he's working.  But I'm pretty sure it's no where near me and haven't run into him once in the 6 mths since we split thank God.  It's a big city.  I wish he'd move back to his home province, something he's talked about at great lengths. 


Title: Re: Her house
Post by: Deeno02 on December 21, 2014, 12:36:05 PM
Hi Deeno, glad you are able to feel the anxiety and let it pass.  I am lucky, I don't even know where my ex lives or where he's working.  But I'm pretty sure it's no where near me and haven't run into him once in the 6 mths since we split thank God.  It's a big city.  I wish he'd move back to his home province, something he's talked about at great lengths. 

I know Pingo. Funny thing is that he won't be parked at her house for much longer. Her house has been in foreclosure for almost 2 years now, can't last to much longer!


Title: Re: Her house
Post by: enlighten me on December 21, 2014, 12:43:36 PM
Just drop my son off with exgf and he is obviously there. I didnt see him but she shut the door so I couldnt see in. I had a little barny with her about having my son for a bit xmas day. Got home and got a text saying I could have him for an hour. I guess her bf  must have asked her what was wrong with me having him so to look good she probably said he was right. Little does he know thats probably the first nail in his coffin lol. I know this as I did the same about her ex husband and their kids and she didnt like it.