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Title: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Left broken and confused on December 23, 2014, 10:17:59 AM I just really want to express how thankful I am for all the support I receive from this site. I was just reminded how lucky I am to have found you all. My sister meet a man 4 months ago on a dating site and he out of no where stopped talking to her. I saw the warning signs from the minute they started dating but of course she didn't want to believe it. She is a mess this is her first relationship after a 30 year abusive marriage that her husband died 3 years ago. She asked me how I am getting through my break up and I told her if it wasn't for the support of the members on this site I don't think I would make it through. Big thanks to everyone here
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Elpis on December 23, 2014, 10:36:28 AM I am 100% with you on this one!
What warning signs did you see with your sister's new relationship? Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Left broken and confused on December 23, 2014, 11:57:27 AM From the beginning of the relationship she was giving him alot of gifts and always doing for him but he never gave anything back. The first night they spoke he told her he was falling in love with her and quickly spoke about moving in together and getting married. He would go for a day or 2 and not even call or text her. Last sign was she was not allowed to express her feelings he would get very angry if she tried to talk about how she was feeling. It was all about him and now he won't even answer a call or text from her.
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Elpis on December 23, 2014, 12:34:36 PM Dang!
And so many of us have put up with those oddities of behavior and said "well, that's a man for you" when they don't want to hear how a woman feels. But then when we see they are all about sharing what they think we oughta see that And I hope I do from here on out! Non-reciprocal relationship = Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Left broken and confused on December 23, 2014, 01:09:07 PM I hope I am smart enough to run from those myself lol
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: neverloveagain on December 23, 2014, 06:03:15 PM This site continues to save me daily. But at the same time i hope to leave one day too.
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: Elpis on December 25, 2014, 01:24:26 AM This site continues to save me daily. But at the same time i hope to leave one day too. There will absolutely be a moment of clarity when you know it's time. I had been saying to a couple of friends for a few months, "how much longer can I deal with this?" but clarity said "NOW." at just the right time. You'll get there. Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: downwhim on December 25, 2014, 01:30:01 AM Can't wait to reach clarity! I too am very grateful for this website. Thank you all Your a t me.
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: preciousme on December 25, 2014, 07:11:42 AM This site also saves me daily... .thank you everyone. I also cant wait to reach clarity!
Title: Re: I really believe this website saved me Post by: NYMike on December 25, 2014, 07:17:20 AM This website continues to save me.Pretty amazing around here.
It saves me everyday as I trudge through this terrible pain,hurt and confusion.I will be tossing some money at it when I get paid to support this website. |