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Title: He texted me today Post by: whythisgirl on December 24, 2014, 09:34:53 AM Its been NC a few days since he accused me of trying to hit him with my car... smh... .He texted me "Happy Birthday and have a blessed day!". I was really shocked to hear from him despite our last encounter. I responded back that it meant a lot to me that he wished me a hbd and to have a Merry Christmas. He didn't respond back. I was hoping he did but in the back of my mind I don't want him to. Its my day and I need to focus on myself drama free! Just need support not to have the urge to reach out to him.
Merry Christmas everyone! Title: Re: He texted me today Post by: fromheeltoheal on December 24, 2014, 10:45:05 AM You're still engaging with him, which is understandable since it hasn't been very long and the holidays and birthdays tend to exaggerate emotions. Best to make a list of all the unacceptable behaviors you chose to tolerate when you were in it, and read it and add to it as much as you need; it's a focus shift that may just keep you off the phone, and the amazing year that is 2015 is just around the corner. Take care of you!
Title: Re: He texted me today Post by: whythisgirl on December 24, 2014, 10:52:07 AM You're still engaging with him, which is understandable since it hasn't been very long and the holidays and birthdays tend to exaggerate emotions. Best to make a list of all the unacceptable behaviors you chose to tolerate when you were in it, and read it and add to it as much as you need; it's a focus shift that may just keep you off the phone, and the amazing year that is 2015 is just around the corner. Take care of you! Thank you! I was just making a list in my head... lol You have an amazing year as well! |