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Title: boundaries Post by: dobie on December 26, 2014, 06:19:10 PM OK my x fiance of now three months post BU now decided out the blue to text me.
" I hope you are having a nice xmass x" As I didn't remember her number I asked "who is this" ? She replied " how immature" Now since the BU she had shown little to no concern for me or my feelings , I'm pretty sure she left because she found a replacement she wanted to date . my qurstion is this I want to text her "Its not fair on your new lover you are texting your x fiance of six year please respect both of us and don't do this again thanks ." Good bad idea or stay NC? I want her to know I'm not a chump and won't stand for her nonsense Title: Re: boundaries Post by: Henry II on December 26, 2014, 08:13:36 PM NC !
Title: Re: boundaries Post by: Somewhere on December 26, 2014, 09:24:46 PM What I just heard in your question . . ...
===================== Dear Group, I see that sharks are circling the beach. Would this be a good time to go for a swim? Thanks! ====================== Answer: Yeah, sure, jump in, the water is fine! :) come on, you already know better -- else you would not be asking. So good job on posting here instead of texting back. Title: Re: boundaries Post by: dobie on December 27, 2014, 01:24:55 AM What I just heard in your question . . ... ===================== Dear Group, I see that sharks are circling the beach. Would this be a good time to go for a swim? Thanks! ====================== Answer: Yeah, sure, jump in, the water is fine! :) come on, you already know better -- else you would not be asking. So good job on posting here instead of texting back. Lol thanks , this is the first "human" response I have had from her since she left and painted me black I don't know if she is trying to re-engage or simply "guilt easing" |