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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ogopogodude on January 08, 2015, 09:34:03 AM



Title: Boy, it sure feels peaceful & empowering to now be single.
Post by: ogopogodude on January 08, 2015, 09:34:03 AM
There is nothing like taking that decision of getting away from an abusive relationship  and sticking with that decision.   It sure feels good to now be single. 

I ask myself, why the b-jesus did I ever put up with that nonsense, and for soo very long?  Was I ever an idiot.


Title: Re: Boy, it sure feels peaceful & empowering to now be single.
Post by: Deeno02 on January 08, 2015, 09:44:13 AM
There is nothing like taking that decision of getting away from an abusive relationship  and sticking with that decision.   It sure feels good to now be single. 

I ask myself, why the b-jesus did I ever put up with that nonsense, and for soo very long?  Was I ever an idiot.

I hear ya. Little rough at times, but well worth it.


Title: Re: Boy, it sure feels peaceful & empowering to now be single.
Post by: enlighten me on January 08, 2015, 10:56:18 AM
Just woke up from a guilt free afternoon nap. Its the little things like that that make me wonder if I ever want another relationship as I can do what I want when I want. Eat what I want when I want. No longer walking on eggshells. No longer in a panic over saying the wrong thing.

Yes it is lonely at times but I would rake 1000 years of lonliness over 1 year with my exgf anyday.


Title: Re: Boy, it sure feels peaceful & empowering to now be single.
Post by: ogopogodude on January 08, 2015, 12:16:24 PM
Yes, it was rough at 1st, living in crappy rental house infested with spiders and mice,etc.

But once I felt comfortable with that, and then "re-grouped" and got my resources, energy, & game-plan all in order then everything naturally came together.