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Title: tricked Post by: rapror496 on January 14, 2015, 10:49:12 PM My exBPD was posting statuses on facebook saying she missed me and was depressed. My parents saw this as she hasn't blocked them yet. I sent her a email asking if she was ok and she responded by emailing me a cease and desist notice for harrasment.? They checked her facebook when I told them the situation and she had deleted her status' s Is this some kind of game? I can't figure out why she would do that. Any advice would be appreciated.
Title: Re: tricked Post by: JohnLove on January 15, 2015, 12:36:06 AM I'll try. She probably did feel depressed and did miss you (normal) and seemed to be reaching out to you despite blocking you (contradictory). Then when you made contact (triangulation with your parents) she believes she has the upper hand (controlling) or way to feel better about herself if she rejects you (dysfunctional). The Facebook status being removed?(manipulation). You can't figure it out? (that is BPD).
It is some kind of sorry pathetic game... .but you do have a choice whether to play. |