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Title: Rebound pregnancy Post by: jammo1989 on January 18, 2015, 04:11:08 AM Has anybody else experienced this kind of behaviour? 2 year relationship, instantly replaced and she's pregnant 2 months into new relationship. Title: Re: Rebound pregnancy Post by: Trog on January 18, 2015, 05:01:29 AM Has anybody else experienced this kind of behaviour? 2 year relationship, instantly replaced and she's pregnant 2 months into new relationship. Hi Jammo, My wife is still married to me and is trying to get pregnant with a 24 yo after we had been trying and she lost our baby. Yes, it's not so strange. And if she succeeds my only regret is for the poor child. Jammo, you made the right decision saying no to this child and look at what she has done after her claim of only wanting one with you. It's not personal. As strange as it sounds. This is not personal to you. Bpd is need. You refused to meet that need, so she got it met somewhere else. It's got nothing to do with love. You have not lost love. You never had it. I know that hurts, it's my reality too. And it hurts like hell. We put our faith and dreams in the wrong person, we were encouraged to do so and we willingly did it. It's typical behaviour for a BPD, sure. Words and actions. Totally apart. You have side stepped a landmine, you need to understand that and also be greatful. Title: Re: Rebound pregnancy Post by: jammo1989 on January 18, 2015, 09:51:13 AM Has anybody else experienced this kind of behaviour? 2 year relationship, instantly replaced and she's pregnant 2 months into new relationship. Hi Jammo, My wife is still married to me and is trying to get pregnant with a 24 yo after we had been trying and she lost our baby. Yes, it's not so strange. And if she succeeds my only regret is for the poor child. Jammo, you made the right decision saying no to this child and look at what she has done after her claim of only wanting one with you. It's not personal. As strange as it sounds. This is not personal to you. Bpd is need. You refused to meet that need, so she got it met somewhere else. It's got nothing to do with love. You have not lost love. You never had it. I know that hurts, it's my reality too. And it hurts like hell. We put our faith and dreams in the wrong person, we were encouraged to do so and we willingly did it. It's typical behaviour for a BPD, sure. Words and actions. Totally apart. You have side stepped a landmine, you need to understand that and also be greatful. Thanks for the reply, its very much needed right now, I know I dodged a bullet, but everything just seems a bit surreal right now :/ |