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Title: Social media. Smh. Must stay away Post by: wavelife on January 18, 2015, 08:09:32 PM It's been 6 months since my BPDw left and a month since I stumbled on to her and the replacement. Social media and how she conducted herself on it was always an issue in our marriage and she acted like a child. I am doing pretty good and have blocked any social media and have not looked. Well I broke my rule today and looked at her Pinterest acct.
One week ago she was posting slides on prayer and fasting, prayers for her husband and our marriage. Days later posting wedding decorations and wedding dresses. Wow! At first bewildered and maybe a little hurt but looking back she pushed our relationship along at a ridiculous pace. She has known this guy for 6 weeks... .wedding? Makes sense for her... .number 5 We are still married and unless I file for divorce because of adultery she has to wait another 6 months. Part of me wants to take the opportunity to get out of it quick the other make her wait. she is very religious and not being married to this guy will be eating her up. Anyways as I digest it, I am just relieved crazy is on to other sources and I am baffled she sucked me in. No more looking. Must stay strong on that. Title: Re: Social media. Smh. Must stay away Post by: ADecadeLost on January 18, 2015, 09:03:19 PM Social media and how she conducted herself on it was always an issue in our marriage and she acted like a child. This is the exact reason I've avoided social media on a personal level (use Linkedin professionally). It was very apparent early on (when facebook first became popular) that social media was going to be an issue for my dBPD ex-wife. I made a decision at that point that I wanted no part of it. If friends/family needed me, they could call, email, or knock on my door. Since the end of our relationship, it has had the added benefit of eliminating potential sources of contact in advance. With regards to your situation, be strong and fight the urge to look. Good luck. |