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She broke up with me and blocked me from contact including social media. Yet, I busted her red handed visiting my Facebook page. So now I am confused: she breaks up with me in the most rude and mean spirited way, blocks me from contact and here it is almost 4 months later and she created an alias so she could visit me every day on Facebook (my profile was public).

Is there any meaning to this within the framework of BPD?

It's typical BPD behavior, mine dumped me and abandoned our family for a total loser she claims she loves but still keeps tabs on my Facebook and will criticize any friends I have.

How do you know she's visiting your facebook page?

I suspected that she was so I put a ruse together involving some of her property... .mine has been a public profile since I started on FB (a pwBPD's dream!)... .I made it available to the first taker as 'junk' from my basement or its going to the garbage... .the next day, I got an IM from her friend, one of few and the only one that would likely agree to go negotiate on her behalf. It was a childish exchange... .I suspect that it might have been my ex just using her friends log on. I found it interesting that she chose one that was easy to manipulate... .the one friend that she has contempt for. The other probably told her to grow up, they were nice people who I felt were somewhat grounded. So... .either her friend stalked me and knew her property well enough to identify it and call it to her attention (zero likelihood) or SHE (using a contrived account since she blocked me) is stalking me.

I switched it to private... .apparently, this drives them nuts.

There IS a way to determine how to find out though... .