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Title: Hello Post by: Technique on January 30, 2015, 09:31:36 AM I am approximately four months out of a relationship with a women who I strongly believe was BPD.
The first few weeks were awful, but upon reflection is was easy compared to the last few months of being with her. I should make it clear I take full responsibility the role I played in the charade, which began to develop around five months into the year long relationship. I was not familiar with the disorder until I started entering elements of per bizarre behaviour into Google. I need to thank posters for their help as I have been a regular visitor to this site since just after Christmas... .2013! Your experiences and advice have been a great help to me. Best wishes to all. Title: Re: Hello Post by: Mutt on January 30, 2015, 10:08:51 AM *welcome*
Hi Techinique, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm also happy that you decided to join and we were of help to you Are you in touch with each other? It helps to talk. --Mutt Title: Re: Hello Post by: HappyNihilist on January 30, 2015, 06:51:29 PM Hi there, Technique. I'm glad you decided to say hello and share your story. Looking at the role we played in the dysfunction is an important step in healing. |iiii The first few weeks were awful, but upon reflection is was easy compared to the last few months of being with her. This is a great way to look at it. It sounds like you're in a good place, at four months out. What do you feel helped you the most in those awful first few weeks? |