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Title: moving on... and trying to heal Post by: netscoutfl on February 10, 2015, 06:18:27 PM I have been on a roller coaster ride with a nurse for over 5.5 yrs. I am so happy to find a site that described all the symptoms. Will they eventually fade away? or will they keep reappearing like vampire?
Emotional Abuses and Silent Treatments, and running off. Is the constant reminder of what love is not suppose to be. Always told I was the bad one, and not able to understand her issues. One directional conversation, and in constant denial and looking for the truth? Do they actually know how to love? or is it just intensity and lack of empathy that they seek? What eventually happen to these disorder? It's like a hurricane, 365 days a year. Really hard to hug and love... . Title: Re: moving on... and trying to heal Post by: Turkish on February 11, 2015, 01:38:34 PM Hello netscoutfl, and *welcome*
You've mentioned her running off. Are you still in this relationship? Living together when she's around, perhaps? Being told that the problem lies with you can definitely get to you after a long time. I think most of us here have been the targets of Projection (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=70931.0). As for your question "will they fade away," that's uncertain unless she is actually diagnosed and in treatment, and even then it really depends upon her commitment to therapy and change. I hope to hear more how best we can support you, netscoutfl. Turkish |