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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: bobutterfly on February 18, 2015, 11:07:03 PM



Title: Husband with BPD and stepmom to children
Post by: bobutterfly on February 18, 2015, 11:07:03 PM
I have been married to a man for one year today that I love dearly. I am stepmom to three children that I love with all my heart for the three years. I'm at my wits end at how to cope

I do not want to leave them however I do not know how to keep my sanity.  My mane concern is what is best for the kids.



Title: Re: Husband with BPD and stepmom to children
Post by: Turkish on February 20, 2015, 12:34:58 AM
Hello bobutterfly and  *welcome*

You telegraph a lot of love for your step children 

What, specifically, are you struggling with right now? There are many step-parents on the board who deal with biological parents who are BPD or who exhibit BPD or NPD traits. It can also be tough dealing with spouses who may still be enmeshed with their Ex's poor behaviors. How long have you been married, and how old are the kids? I hope to hear more, and how best we can support you.

Turkish