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Title: New Here Post by: walkingoneggs on February 24, 2015, 04:03:06 PM I'm recently married. My wife has BPD and I'm pretty sure I'm doing all I can to enable it/her behavior. I just want to figure out how to deal with the BPD in her while loving her at the same time.
Title: Re: New Here Post by: vortex of confusion on February 24, 2015, 05:33:09 PM *welcome*
How long have you been married? Recent is a relative term as there are people here that have been dealing with this for lots of years, which means that there are a lot of people here that can help you try to navigate your way through this. It isn't easy. One of the best places to start is with the lessons on the side of the page. Here is the direct link: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=56206 What kinds of struggles are you having that are specific to your relationship? As you read and identify areas that you want to work on or navigate, you can post and get input from others. Title: Re: New Here Post by: Cat Familiar on February 24, 2015, 06:59:43 PM *welcome*
It's definitely a challenge dealing with a person with BPD, but the lessons can help a lot. They've helped me create a much more harmonious home life. Please tell us more about your situation and the kinds of behaviors that are troubling. |