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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ripps on March 03, 2015, 02:15:41 PM



Title: There's a clean like sharp knife split
Post by: ripps on March 03, 2015, 02:15:41 PM
Unbelievable. Recap: last Thursday she broke up with me when I went over to talk about a few of my needs that just need to be met. All I did was give. Arrived, all stuff packed neatly at the door and she's cold as ice telling me it's all my fault, she wants peace and joy and I'm mad at her all the time. What?  I am surprised (but just so tired) so say ok and grab my stuff and left. Checked to make sure all was there next day and it was. Just went to put on favorite shirt, which she knew was my favorite, and there's a clean like sharp knife split in the sleeve. Jesus, she ended it with me!


Title: Re: Rip in shirt returned
Post by: Gonzalo on March 03, 2015, 02:42:15 PM
Remember, feelings create facts for someone with BPD. She can't deal with being mad all the time, so she projects it on you and now you've got the anger problem. It hurts her that she broke off the relationship, so since it's much easier to deal with if you broke it off, that's the history in her head.