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Title: Tips for writing a letter to BPD EX GF , Post by: Warney on March 03, 2015, 08:06:35 PM Any tips on how to write a letter to any BPD ex in fact as many here feel the need to do this.To reconcile or even get dialogue flowing.
EG start with ... . Title: Re: Tips for writing a letter to BPD EX GF , Post by: Tim300 on March 03, 2015, 08:09:29 PM My primary tip is to just wait. Hold off for now. Take some time to read about BPD, think about it. Read a book about it. Where are you in terms of time apart and your knowledge of BPD?
Title: Re: Tips for writing a letter to BPD EX GF , Post by: Warney on March 03, 2015, 08:26:41 PM Im 3 months out from her , but this is really for a lot of people who all seem to want to contact them but don't know how to break down the initial contact.
For me i am deal with a high conflict BPD and lawyers are writing letters not me. Title: Re: Tips for writing a letter to BPD EX GF , Post by: Tim300 on March 03, 2015, 08:46:12 PM Im 3 months out from her , but this is really for a lot of people who all seem to want to contact them but don't know how to break down the initial contact. For me i am deal with a high conflict BPD and lawyers are writing letters not me. High conflict and lawyers involved . . . I would tread lightly. This makes the case even stronger to just delay a bit longer and think things through. If you absolutely must get dialogue flowing, perhaps a birthday or holiday is a good excuse to make some light contact. |