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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: new_beginning on March 04, 2015, 11:28:32 AM



Title: treading carefully
Post by: new_beginning on March 04, 2015, 11:28:32 AM
 

I am in a co-dependent relationship with my fiancĂ© who has bp disorder. I am here because I feel as though my life has been out of control. I want to get well and know who I am and what I want. I feel sad   my partner has left today because I asked him to go. This is something I do its a pattern I feel very alone and confused.


Title: Re: treading carefully
Post by: Cat Familiar on March 04, 2015, 11:53:58 AM
Welcome New_Beginning,

We understand how difficult it is to be in a relationship with a person with BPD.    Please familiarize yourself with the lessons on the right. There's a lot of good information about how to manage your own responses to the challenges your partner presents. We can't cure them, but we can, through knowledge, make life better and easier.


Title: Re: treading carefully
Post by: DreamGirl on March 04, 2015, 01:19:27 PM
Hi new_beginning,

I wanted to add my welcome as well. 

What happened today?

--DG