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Title: no more hope Post by: RR4U on March 09, 2015, 11:29:18 PM So it doesn't ever stop. I need to leave but scared. Asked him to go to a family birthday dinner and response NOPE I DONT WANT TO. i am.losing me. Not sure what first steps arw now. So lost... .
Title: Re: no more hope Post by: SusanBB on March 10, 2015, 12:50:52 AM I can definitely relate. I'm sorry you're in so much pain.
Do you know specifically what you're afraid of? Title: Re: no more hope Post by: RR4U on March 10, 2015, 06:08:44 AM He can be so evil and knows my triggers to make me feel like im losing my mind. 2 years ago i filed for seperation and he freaked out. Calling all the time and i thought he might hurt himself. We ended up trying to work things out but it just seems that i am running in circles. I just cant fight anymore... .he tells me he is going to fight me for everything. House. Dogs. Part of me feels like saying take it alL, all i need is me but the other parts says why should i do that. Guess good thing is there are no kids. I am thinking i shpuld start getting a bag together to keep somewhere safe. Just dont know if anywhere is safe. He will find me if he wants too.
Title: Re: no more hope Post by: hope2727 on March 10, 2015, 01:17:52 PM I am so sorry you are enduring this. It will get better. Yes put a bag together and leave it a work or a trusted friends. Long ago in another marriage I had to do that. I started with a change of clothes and enough if my medications to last a week. I included photocopies of my ID and other documents as time went by. Eventually I had copies of everything you could imagine. I stashed cash with a friend $50 at a time until I had $3000. It took awhile but I I ally gathered a copy of land title documents mortgages everything. In the end he left me but I was ready. I secretly opened a bank account with a new email address and made sure the bank knew to send NO paper mail. I strongly suggest beginning to plan. I didn't want to have to leave but it wasn't worth dying over. No one is. Pls come back and post regularly to let us know how you are doing.
Title: Re: no more hope Post by: RR4U on March 10, 2015, 05:30:23 PM I spoke to a friend today she said i can keep a bag with her. I already have my own bank account. Today hes nice as can be. But i feel i need to start making a move soon. Otherwise one more month will go into one more year.
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