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Title: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: Rockylove on March 11, 2015, 03:00:57 PM Just a thought... .
my uBPDh said that I was happy and life was good as long as it was going my way. DUH! Is that such a foreign concept? Doesn't everyone love life more when things are going well? When things are as they imagined? I know I'm a bit of an idealist, but I am a Pollyanna and always try to look on the bright side. Was this just something he was saying to confuse or hurt me? Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: tjay933 on March 11, 2015, 03:11:07 PM sounds like he may be looking for a new button to push? imo. or maybe he was projecting? maybe he's upset because everything should go his way not yours?
Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: joshbjoshb on March 11, 2015, 03:37:41 PM My suggestion is not to waste too much time in what was his intent when he said what he did. Because if he is not well, does it really make a difference what kind of non sense he is saying when he is upset?
Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: Rockylove on March 12, 2015, 06:45:56 AM He's definitely found a new button to push! He's making new rules that I must follow or "get out." :'( He's in a foul mood and I'm not sure what's triggered it. I'm definitely being painted black. I'm not sure how this will play out.
Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: tjay933 on March 12, 2015, 09:07:58 AM Rocky-so sorry to hear your entering a difficult time. please keep us updated if you can. are you in a safe place or do you feel you aren't? please be careful
Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: LilHurt420 on March 12, 2015, 10:26:51 AM I tend to say this to my uBPD husband a lot. Maybe yours was projecting?
As long as my husband is "happy" (I put that in quotes cause I don't think he's ever truly happy) all is good in his world. He never cares if I'm happy or not. Title: Re: Life is good as long as everything's going your way. Post by: Rockylove on March 12, 2015, 02:31:41 PM Well... .it's like last night didn't happen. This morning he slept in and when he got up I'd already done a day's worth of chores. I said good morning to him and he seemed startled but said good morning in return. Everything is back to 'normal' again! After I made him breakfast, I gave him a hug and a kiss and told him that I loved him and he said he loves me too. Go figure! The roller coaster ride continues~~hanging on tight! :)
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