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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Confused76 on March 12, 2015, 02:02:54 PM



Title: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: Confused76 on March 12, 2015, 02:02:54 PM
About every other month, Facebook suggests that I should be friends with one of her family members (or at least someone with the same last name).  The weird thing is, during our 18 months together, I never met any of her family (or friends,  red-flag).  I don't pretend to understand FB's connection algorithms, but can I just say, it's a little annoying.  I haven't seen her in nearly a year now, and have remained strictly NC for 10 months.  I continue to heal and move away from the pain, but this always seems to be like picking at the scab.


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: Technique on March 12, 2015, 02:26:50 PM
Block function?


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: JRT on March 12, 2015, 02:35:04 PM
Do your remain FB friends with her or any of her family and friends?


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: Confused76 on March 12, 2015, 02:57:45 PM
She has been blocked since last May.  In the "People you may know" section, people with the last name as her (and typically in the same town), show up from time to time.  I don't know if they are related, but it's pretty unique Italian last name, so I can only guess.  I don't know if she is having family members check up on me, which is perhaps why they show up.  My FB is fairly private, so they wouldn't be able to see much.


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: JRT on March 12, 2015, 03:16:10 PM
I wish I knew the algorithm that they use... .


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: Climbmountains91 on March 12, 2015, 10:19:57 PM
Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: JRT on March 12, 2015, 10:29:43 PM
Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!

Yeah... .I just had an incident today... .sigh


Title: Re: FB doesn't want me to forget
Post by: Climbmountains91 on March 12, 2015, 10:37:33 PM
Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!

Yeah... .I just had an incident today... .sigh

Yup its crap  "Hugs".