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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Eco on March 14, 2015, 04:18:37 PM



Title: question for you guys
Post by: Eco on March 14, 2015, 04:18:37 PM
just curious if anyone else has had this happen. my 2 yr old daughter doesn't like to be tickled any more. she use to love for me to tickle her and starting about 2 weeks ago she gets very irritated when I start to tickle her. I was thinking its just a phase or something like that, im not sure though if abuse could be a cause so I thought I would ask here.

thanks for the help


Title: Re: question for you guys
Post by: Rubies on March 14, 2015, 04:43:51 PM
Respect her wish not be tickled.  Some of us were held down and tickled well past us yelling stop until we could not breathe any more.  It started as fun, turned to abuse.  If someone tries to tickle me, I say please don't.   If they continue there's a good chance they will be injured.   DD is the same way.


Title: Re: question for you guys
Post by: Eco on March 14, 2015, 06:15:12 PM
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Respect her wish not be tickled.  Some of us were held down and tickled well past us yelling stop until we could not breathe any more.  It started as fun, turned to abuse.  If someone tries to tickle me, I say please don't.   If they continue there's a good chance they will be injured.   DD is the same way.

I do, now when we are playing I don't really try to. thanks for the advice though