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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Hiker on March 14, 2015, 05:13:40 PM



Title: Divorce
Post by: Hiker on March 14, 2015, 05:13:40 PM
The divorce was final Feb 20. I filed. I couldn't take any more of her verbal and emotional abuse. Fortunately I am getting counseling through V A. I have a lot of healing to deal with.

I felt like a hostage instead of a husband. I have been studying walking on eggshells and I see

so much of the relationship through the pages.


Title: Re: Divorce
Post by: Tibbles on March 14, 2015, 08:24:19 PM
Hi Hiker

It was reading that book that led me to this site. That book described my life and I could not believe other people also had the crazy life that I had. This site has been a wonderful place to heal and learn. Welcome x


Title: Re: Divorce
Post by: tjay933 on March 14, 2015, 09:26:01 PM
  welcome 


Title: Re: Divorce
Post by: maxen on March 15, 2015, 03:15:01 PM
hi hiker. i too just finished a divorce, signed last week. however bad the marriage was, i was amazed to discover how deeply being married ties two people together. i'm glad you've got access to counseling, and please keep posting here, we're the people who have been through it. do you have a social network to lean on, family or friends?