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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: ghoststory on March 17, 2015, 03:07:23 AM



Title: oh the joy of freedom
Post by: ghoststory on March 17, 2015, 03:07:23 AM
I have for a few months been here to seek support for my pwBPD ... she is my co worker and recently boss ,,  I was seeing her starting to crack at my previous very limited contact ,,and today was granted a requested transfer ,,she is no longer my boss or co worker ... .I feel a great relief being able to take the last bit of power and control she had on me away ... .now I can go NC at last ,,not sure what the level of abandonment she will feel but I hope it's not severe and this is finally the end ... .


Title: Re: oh the joy of freedom
Post by: Mutt on March 17, 2015, 10:55:35 PM
Hi ghost story,

It must have been incredibly difficult and stressful working with your co-worker turned boss and you got your requested transfer.

That's good news!


Title: Re: oh the joy of freedom
Post by: ghoststory on March 18, 2015, 01:45:28 AM
It was very stressful hour cuts ,,write ups ... .anything to retaliate when felt slighted by me and you know you can't explain by saying she's a borderline haha ... .thank you sir for the encouragement



Title: Re: oh the joy of freedom
Post by: Mutt on March 18, 2015, 01:50:36 PM
It's very hard when a boss makes it personal in a work-place and it's directed at you.

It's a new day for you.



Title: Re: oh the joy of freedom
Post by: ghoststory on March 18, 2015, 04:19:59 PM
yes sir ... .and thank you