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Title: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: Bumpsintheroad on March 25, 2015, 01:44:14 AM Had it not been for an auto accident that laid me up for a couple months, I may not have learned that I was in an extremely unhealthy marriage to a woman with a PD mirroring that of Jodi Arias. I had been separated from my wife and was considering a 2nd recycle of her never ending bizarre behavior.
At the time, I had no clue what BPD was but had serious reservations that her behavior was far from healthy or 'normal'. So I get rear-ended and had a bad case of whiplash, tore some shoulder muscles and a slight concussion. Well, I'm bed and couch ridden and forced to make my remote control a temporary attachment. One day I'm channel surfing and come across the Arias trial and they are questioning a few shrinks about Jody and her psychological makeup and bingo :light: hits me. It didn't take but a few days of expert trial analysis for me to realize my wife had nearly all the characteristics of this very sick woman (short of murder). Long story short, I began to research PD's and spent the next few months with a great T to help me realize the plight I was trying to get a grip on. As I became more aware of the nearly impossible, uphill battle facing me, I finally had the sense to face the ugly reality. She had lied and cheated so many times I just had enough. I will not bore you with the particulars, but suffice to say I had only one choice... .to save myself. No more recycles. The marriage is over. Sad but true. No apologies from her for the excruciating pain she put me (and many others) thru. No remorse. NC for 10+ months and feeling pretty damn good. I will always have a place in my heart for her; kinda like that first crush in 3rd grade. I do feel like I dodged a bullet and was spared, unlike Travis. Title: Re: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: Infern0 on March 25, 2015, 04:03:58 AM Yeah not getting murdered in the shower is definitely a plus
Title: Re: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: downwhim on March 25, 2015, 09:45:47 AM Honestly, there are times when I will watch Dateline or an unsolved mystery and think, wow my ex acted that way. Frightening. In a split second when they go into a rage and their eyes turn black it could be it for you! Not saying they are all capable of this but... .
Title: Re: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: clydegriffith on March 25, 2015, 09:46:57 AM When reading about the Jodi Arias trial and all the things she did, it was quite scary as that story could have very well been me. I'm still fairly certain that sooner or later the BPDx will have her very own Jodi Arias moment. She's either going to kill someone in a BPD rage or run her games on the wrong guy one day.
Title: Re: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: Bumpsintheroad on March 25, 2015, 10:02:47 AM downwhim... .the 'black eyes rage'... .it's soo scary.
Clyde... .my exBPD wife will eventually pi$$ off the wrong guy. 41 years old and on marriage #5. It's just a numbers game at this point. Title: Re: Travis Alexander's misfortune ended my recycling forever. Post by: downwhim on March 25, 2015, 10:36:49 AM Hep, just one time there may be a stronger, bigger Marine than him. His voice and size has been used to intimidate me and others for years. One day he may meet his match.
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