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Title: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: bobbyg on March 29, 2015, 03:17:01 PM Need help leaving a lying maniplitive HPD girlfriend with a violent history with a past boyfriend
Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: vortex of confusion on March 29, 2015, 04:17:17 PM Welcome to the boards! I am not sure how much BPD and HPD are related. I do know that there is a lot of overlap in the different personality disorders. I think the tools on the right side of the forum have lots of helpful information. If you are wanting to leave, you might check out the lessons on the Leaving Board. How long have you been with your girlfriend? I am sure that there are people here that can give you some insights and pointers. Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: Suzn on March 29, 2015, 04:36:08 PM Hi bobbyg
Welcome to bpdfamily.com. What happened? Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: Mutt on March 29, 2015, 06:31:26 PM Hi bobbyg,
*welcome* We're here to help. Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: jammo1989 on March 29, 2015, 06:43:03 PM Need help leaving a lying maniplitive HPD girlfriend with a violent history with a past boyfriend Welcome to the forum Bobby, I know quite a bit about the HPD side of the spectrum, as my ex was HPD as well, what would you like to know? Just post us all your questions and ill answer a Each of them individual best I can. Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: Infern0 on March 29, 2015, 07:53:13 PM Hpd doesn't seem to be covered as much as BPD but there's a lot of crossover. I'm sure we can offer some help
Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: Stalwart on March 29, 2015, 08:18:08 PM Bobby it seems as though you've already made up you mind to leave so that would seem to be a place to start.
Fear is a terrible and dark place to live. Fear of dysregualtion, lashing out, how it may affect your future or interfere with your life if she does. I know the feeling. It's a place I sank to for a short time a long while back. It was also the place where I found recognition that I had to move forward and not allow fear to be a contingent in my decision making. What do you think the repercussions to your leaving would be, that you fear them so much? Title: Re: Histrionic HPD girlfriend Post by: Turkish on March 29, 2015, 08:24:17 PM Hi bobbyg,
That your gf has a history of violence is concerning. Do you live together? Has she exhibited any violent tendencies at all, even if she's never touched you (like throwing things)? It's good too have a real life safety support system in place, so, if not an outright safety plan. We can help you work through these things. Please keep us updated, bobbyg. Turkish |