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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Artanis on April 05, 2015, 01:42:54 AM



Title: I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
Post by: Artanis on April 05, 2015, 01:42:54 AM
Hello there,

I have been a passive reader on this amazing forum and have learned a lot in last one year.

I had never heard about BPD until 15 months ago when I started searching aggressively on why my wife behaves like she behaves and how its damaging our two small kids (S7 and D3).

Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.



Title: Re: I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
Post by: Skip on April 05, 2015, 03:52:21 PM
Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.

What is the current strategy on this?


Title: Re: I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
Post by: Artanis on April 07, 2015, 09:55:52 AM
Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.

What is the current strategy on this?

I am continuing to work with my in-laws to help with situation as they tend to think that nothing is wrong. Apparently I learned that my wife's mom was diagnosed and treated for Depression. I am speculating even she might have this disorder.


Title: Re: I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
Post by: Skip on April 07, 2015, 10:10:38 AM
What happened (from her perspective) that lead to taking the kids away?  Do you have visitaton?


Title: Re: I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
Post by: ColdEthyl on April 07, 2015, 01:00:30 PM
Artanis, I am sorry you are going through this