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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: sbr1050 on April 09, 2015, 05:38:35 PM



Title: Nature of a relationship between two pwBPD
Post by: sbr1050 on April 09, 2015, 05:38:35 PM
Someone suggested that my exBPDbf may have found a fellow pwBPD in his new relationship (he is dating a 23 year old girl that he basically hooked up with the moment he walked out of my door!).  I believe he was having an emotional relationship with her for up to a year before he left me.  She would text him about her trust issues, feelings, etc.  

I was just wondering out of curiousity, what is the nature of a relationship when BOTH parties are BPD?


Title: Re: Nature of a relationship between two pwBPD
Post by: Maternus on April 09, 2015, 06:43:30 PM
I was just wondering out of curiousity, what is the nature of a relationship when BOTH parties are BPD?

I don't think, that there is an exact answer to this question. Borderline is a very complex disorder which lies on a more complex spectrum with other PDs. Someone can be BPD with traits of HPD, NPD, ASPD or even DPD (which is not in the Cluster-B). We are talking about human beings, not about machines. A pwBPD who as also ASPD-traits will dominate a pwBPD who has DPD-traits, I think.


Title: Re: Nature of a relationship between two pwBPD
Post by: Sandman1881 on April 11, 2015, 11:32:04 PM
It's a goddamn nightmare. 2 dysregulating Children in adult bodies playing house and cheating right and left.