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Title: uBPDex wouldn't forgive or move on Post by: mitatsu on April 10, 2015, 01:31:58 AM Did any of you folks get the same? Whenever they went over to the dark side any problems brought up were all past issues that 'you' had done things you thought were sorted and put to bed?
My pwBPD did this all the time so frustrating and of course the more you tried to explain or defend the worse they got? Title: Re: Kitchen sinking Post by: dobie on April 10, 2015, 01:35:12 AM All the time
"You were such a horrible %%&% " now your "such a nice man " "You did xyz 18 month to five years ago " blah blah Title: Re: uBPDex wouldn't forgive or move on Post by: once removed on April 10, 2015, 02:31:24 AM often referred to as "kitchen sinking", yes, i experienced it. im fairly committed to a relationship with no double standards, and yet i applied them as well. i read a post on this board earlier (sorry, i dont remember which) about a pwBPD feeling all the anger at these things as if it is happening in real time, and i largely agree with that.
Title: Re: uBPDex wouldn't forgive or move on Post by: Beach_Babe on April 10, 2015, 03:24:01 AM Yes. Sadly that is what I am experiencing right now. What is she saying to you?
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