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Title: There is hope, sometimes it works out Post by: Rolf on April 21, 2015, 05:43:24 PM Thanks to the posters on this thread (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=112992.).
I left the family home three weeks ago as I could no longer handle my partner's apparent BPD tendencies (undiagnosed) . We've been together almost three years and I'm in quandry as to what i should do next. We have both agreed to counselling and I'm hoping we can find a way. I just have these flashbacks of her paranoia and irrational behaviour which prompts me to keep my distance. She wants me to come home but I fear we will fall out again. First and foremost, how do i manage to inform my partner she could be suffering from BPD? I realise i may have issues too... .but my partner's insecurity and anxiety is killing our relationship and for me that is priority moving forward... . Title: Re: There is hope, sometimes it works out Post by: OnceConfused on April 22, 2015, 02:58:06 PM No one wants to be told they have mental illness. So don't even try.
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